邻居给我写了封信

fly_cat · 发表于 2014-5-31 05:03:34

本帖最后由 fly_cat 于 2013-1-30 11:42 编辑
事情都过了2年半了，没想到还被大家顶起来。还有人问，我就顶楼大致总结一下。
1. 之前和邻居没有什么交集，但有过打招呼，以及他们问我们为什么阳台晒辣椒，以及希望我们砍掉一棵树，之类的都是口头上交流。我们也都照做了
2. 突然来了封信，很恼火，我在我们concil网站查了，早7点以后都可以使用大功率电动或机动工具。所以从道理上讲，我们并没错。本来这件事他要是口头来说一声，我们也会注意。我们独立的house，周围别人家早上7点也有雇人割草，大家都听得到的。他们这种行为非常粗鲁，并带着歧视。
3. 结局是我们和他们再也没有任何交往，没有招呼。我家和对门，以及把他们夹在当中的另一边的邻居（我家7号和3号邻居）都关系很好，小孩互相串门。我们过我们的日子，不再刁他们。
4. 我们后来也扩建了房子，concil也批了。
邻里之间本来和为贵，有话好好说，事情好解决。你们就是贵族，也得讲礼貌吧。
下面是原来的主楼：
邻居给我写了封信。
大家看看，我该怎么做。心里觉着她歧视我们，而且不先找我们口头上说一下。
TO OUR “FRIENDLY” NEIGHOURS
I am writing this letter to bring to your attention that our boys are having school holidays and we sleep late at night and wake up late in the morning, because it is holidays and relaxing time for us. Since the time your parents in law are staying here, we have been tolerating lot of noise early in the mornings; however during the school days it is kind of ok. Our bedrooms are in a place that any little noise from your front yard is heard clearly till our lounge room, it is not sound proof. Your other side neighbours are lucky they don’t get to hear any noise from your front yard. Even though we have two young boys, the noise that comes from our side is very minimal and I am presuming does not disturb any neighbours. So I guess we are the unlucky ones have to put up with the digging, banging and sometimes we feel that we live in a Chinese village, than Sydney Australia.
Your child screaming loudly, pushing his toy car on the cement and playing the ball at 7 am in the morning is very noisy and disturbing to us. There is an appropriate time and place for these sort of things. He can scream as much as he want in your backyard, that noise is not much heard in our bedrooms. Also our boys go back to school on the 20th so you can make noise after that time until the next school holidays in October. Unfortunately, we are not on Centrelink benefits and privileged to sit at home and mind the kids and have someone to cook and clean for us. In fact we work hard and pay taxes for other people to live a luxury lifestyle even without working. We have to do everything on our own, so throughout the school term we are extremely busy running around, therefore school holidays and weekends is a relaxing time for us.
The first time you and your wife came to meet us at our place, we welcomed you and took you inside the house even though I was watching a very interesting TV program and you came unannounced at our dinner time. You can with the excuse to ask for permission to install a satellite antenna, even though you did it after 1 year. I thought maybe we have good neighbours who we can rely on each other, but it is not the case. It seems you guys are not interested in anyone else other than your own cultural background and happy in your own environment. You may have many friends but sometimes in times of emergency you might end up needing the neighbours although you have maintained one good neighbour the opposite side of your house. I don’t think we have done anything wrong to you guys. Sorry, I was unable to get this letter typed in Mandarin as we live in Australia with English being the main language.
Hope this letter makes sense and clears the air of animosity.
Sincerely